So, as i said before, i don't want my h to find out that i'm leaving because he can really hold up the divorce if he wants to. so, i can't give notice at the gym i work at because he goes there and i don't want anyone to say anything to him. you can tell people all you want to keep things to themselves, but you know that never happens. so, i have to act like i haven't gotten the job yet. people keep asking me and i HATE lying. i feel like a piece of crap.
i'm not taking a moving van or u-haul or anything, i'm basically ditching all my furniture and just taking my clothes. part of the problem is my h wants some of the stuff that's in the apt, and i can't tell him i'm leaving so he should come and get it, so that is all up in the air.
this is getting more stressful than i thought it would.
I would feel uncomfortable too about your gym delima but its in your best interest for him not to find out.
ReplyDeleteIts been a long time. Have you already moved or is the date approaching? what your doing sounds exciting, stressful but exciting.... Miss chatting with you. I will try to update soon.